Monthly Archive for December, 2009
“Strength of character means the ability to overcome resentment against others and to forgive quickly.”
Last night’s message:
“Christ came that we all might have abundant life, real and eternal life, a better life than we ever dreamed of.” John 10: 10
Listen now to John, Chapter 3, verses 16-17, from the Bible: “This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again.”
As we go to God in silent prayer, consider the answers to these questions:
· Who needs an expression of God’s love tonight?
· What places in your life and in the world need more abundant life? Need a better life than ever dreamed possible?
Let’s pray: God of ever-expanding love, we bring ourselves to you, and with us all those who are in need. We remember those who suffer due to illness, war, poverty, separation, injustice, or any other condition that steals the abundant, better life that you want for each of us. God of all creation, Spirit of release and rescue, may what you want be done on earth as it is in heaven, now and forever. Amen.
SONG: What Child Is This (sung by Anita)
Well, over the past couple of weeks we’ve been looking at that one incredible moment of Jesus’ birth, relying heavily on a book of the same title by Max Lucado. Tonight we continue by looking at what the manger means as we go looking for our savior, our rescuer, our deliverer, born in the city of Bethlehem.
We begin with the story of Henry. Maybe you know him. Henry was a guy whose life was full of unhappiness. His days were gloomy and the nights were long. Henry didn’t want to be miserable, but he was. With the passing of the years, his life had changed. His kids were grown-up. The neighborhood was different. The city seemed harsher.
Henry was so sad and unhappy that he decided to ask his pastor what was wrong. “Am I unhappy for some sin I have committed?” “Yes,” the pastor replied. “You have sinned.” “And what might that sin be,” Henry asked. “Ignorance,” came the reply. “The sin of ignorance. One of your neighbors is the Messiah, Jesus himself, in disguise, and you have not seen him.” The old man left the office surprised. “Jesus is one of my neighbors?”
Henry began to think whom it might be. Is it Tony the grocer? No, he’s too lazy. What about Marilynn, my cousin down the street? No, she’s way too arrogant. Could it be Arnold the vice president at the bank? No, he’s too greedy. Henry was baffled. Every person he knew had defects. But one was the Messiah; was Jesus. He began to look for him.
Henry began to notice things he hadn’t seen before. Tony frequently carried the sacks to the cars of senior citizens at the grocery store. Maybe he’s Jesus. The crossing guard at the school on the corner always had a smile for the kids. Could it be? And the young couple who just moved in across the street. How kind they are to their cat. Maybe he’s one of them.
Over time Henry saw things in people he’d never seen before. And over time his outlook on life began to change. The spring returned to his step. His eyes took on a welcoming twinkle. When others spoke, he listened. After all, he might be listening to the Messiah, to Jesus himself. When anyone asked him to help out, he responded; after all, this might be Jesus needing help!
The change of attitude was so significant that someone asked Henry why he was so cheerful and happy. “I don’t know,” he answered. “All I know is that things changed when I started looking for God.” Isn’t that story interesting? Henry saw Jesus because he didn’t know what he looked like. The people in Jesus’ day missed seeing him because they thought they DID know what he was supposed to look like. So my question for you right now is, how are things looking in your neighborhood? Have you been looking for God there?
(reader) Somehow not only for Christmas, but all the long year through, the joy that you give to others, is the joy that comes back to you. And the more you spend in blessing, the poor and lonely and sad, the more of your heart’s possessing, returns to make you glad. John Greenleaf Whittier, 1866
Back in the Old Testament of the Bible Isaiah made a prediction, promising that a child would be born who would establish a kingdom of peace. This child would govern his kingdom by justice and righteousness.
Isaiah wrote, “A child has been born—for us! The gift of a son—for us! He’ll take over the running of the world. His names will be: Amazing Counselor, Strong God, Eternal Father, Prince of Wholeness and Peace.” Isaiah 9: 6
The early Christian community saw these hopes for a child who would establish a righteous kingdom fulfilled in Jesus Christ as the Messiah, the anointed one. The Prince of Peace. Today we still see God’s kingdom fulfilled in Jesus, bringing peace to our own lives and to the whole world.
And did you hear what it said about a present? “The gift of a son—for us!” Oh, the things we do to give gifts to those we love. But we don’t mind, do we? We would do it all again. Fact is, we DO it all again. Every Christmas, every birthday, every so often.
Some of us find ourselves in strange territory. Aunts and uncles are in toy stores and Dads are in stores normally reserved for teenage girls. Women are in the sporting goods store which might not be so unfamiliar to them. But guys in the purse department! I don’t see that every day unless they’re buying a “man” purse.
And not only do we enter places that are strange to us, but we do strange things. We put bikes together until the wee hours of the morning. We hide the new tires with the awesome rims in the closet under the stairs. We brave the mall on Christmas Eve to get that last, perfect gift. And we’d do it all again.
Because we are at our best when we are giving. In fact, we’re the most like God when we’re giving. If we give gifts to show our love, how much more does God give? If we who struggle with greed and selfishness love to give gifts, how much more does God, our great and wonderful God, enjoy giving gifts to us? Jesus said, “You’re decent to your own children. So don’t you think the God who conceived you in love will be even better?” Matthew 7:11
God’s gifts shine light on God’s heart, God’s good and generous heart. Jesus’ brother James tells us in the Bible: “Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven. The gifts are rivers of light cascading down from the Father of Light.” James 1: 17
Every gift shows God’s love for us, but no gift proved God’s love for us more than the gift of Jesus’ life. He didn’t have to be born in that manger. He didn’t have to give up his life. It was a choice on his part, to devote his life to God’s purposes so that we could have a better life than we ever dreamed possible.
Jesus gave his entire life, his waking, his sleeping, his living and dying moments, for you. As you think about what the manger means to you, what Jesus’ birth means to you, unwrap the gift of God’s acceptance and forgiveness. The gift of God’s grace and the assurance that God loves you. Jesus gave the ultimate gift, his life, for you. So this Christmas season will you try to return it? Or will you accept it and simply say thank you?
In the Bible, Simeon said, “Can I stay alive until I see him? Until I see the Messiah, the Christ?” The wise men said, “Saddle up the camels. We aren’t stopping until we find him.” The shepherds said, “Let’s go. Let’s see!” These guys couldn’t wait! They eagerly wanted the Savior. They wanted to see Jesus. Each went diligently looking for God. The Bible says that “God cares enough to respond to those who seek him.” Hebrews 11:6 It also says, “If you seek him, he’ll make sure you find him.” 1 Chronicles 28: 9
Have you been diligently seeking Jesus, looking for him in places you never looked before? I want to encourage you to be enthusiastic and persistent in your search. Step away from the minor pursuits of wealth and status, and seek your messiah. Go looking for Jesus. That’s been our theme for the past few weeks, hasn’t it?
Don’t be content with messengers and pastors. Don’t be satisfied with signs in the sky. Go to God like the shepherds did. Long for him as Simeon did. Worship him as the wise men did. Risk whatever it takes to see Christ. God responds to those who seek him. Not those who seek doctrine or religion or systems or creeds. Many settle for these things but God responds to those who settle for nothing less than Jesus himself. “If you seek him, he’ll make sure you find him.”
SONG: Away in a Manger (sung by Anita)
Let’s pray: Oh, God, who hears the prayer of the smallest child and the most wayward adult, hear now the murmuring of our hearts. We pray for light in our darkness, that our minds may be opened and drawn into service for you. We pray for reset from our fevered existences, especially in this Christmas season, that we may experience your peace and be changed from our anxious ways. We pray for the capacity to feel your great love for us, that we may no longer be lonely for fearful, and that your spirit of strength and vitality may flow through us to the needy world around us. Take from us unkindness and pride and envy, that we may look upon the world joyfully and excitedly, cherishing the welfare and happiness of others.
Teach us to wait with you with each new day in quiet ways until your spirit forms itself in us, and we are not our own but yours who came to us in the life and death and resurrection of Jesus. Give to our world a greater capacity for peace and to our leaders the humility to bow themselves before your throne of grace. Let those of us who live in abundance reach out to those who live in desperation, and let the kingdoms of this world become the kingdom of Christ, that we may worship you forever and ever. Amen.

“Setting a goal is not the main thing. It is deciding how you will go about achieving it and staying with that plan.”
– Tom Landry, football coach
Tonight’s sermon:
“Nothing is impossible with God.” Luke 1:37
Listen now to Luke 1, verses 26-38, from the New Testament of the Bible:
In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to the Galilean village of Nazareth to a virgin engaged to be married to a man descended from David. His name was Joseph, and the virgin’s name, Mary. Upon entering, Gabriel greeted her: ‘Good morning! You’re beautiful with God’s beauty, beautiful inside and out! God be with you.’
She was thoroughly shaken, wondering what was behind a greeting like that. But the angel assured her, ‘Mary, you have nothing to fear. God has a surprise for you: You will become pregnant and give birth to a son and call his name Jesus. He will be great, be called ‘Son of the Highest.’ The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David; He will rule Jacob’s house forever— no end, ever, to his kingdom.’
Mary said to the angel, ‘But how? I’ve never slept with a man.’
The angel answered, ‘The Holy Spirit will come upon you, the power of the Highest hover over you; Therefore, the child you bring to birth will be called Holy, Son of God. And did you know that your cousin Elizabeth conceived a son, old as she is? Everyone called her barren, and here she is six months pregnant! Nothing, you see, is impossible with God.’
I want you to take a minute now to silently pray about the answers to these questions:
· What does God promise to you and to the world that seems impossible at this time?
· What voices within us and outside us call things impossible?
· What is God’s Spirit saying?
Let’s pray: God of unwavering power, thank you for all that is ours in Christ. We ask forgiveness for the times we forget your promises and doubt your power to fulfill them. Like Mary and Joseph, we believe beyond what we can see, for nothing is impossible with you, Creator, Redeemer, and Sustainer of all that is and will be. Amen.
Tonight we continue our celebration of Advent, a time of longing as we await the Christ child’s birth. A season when God’s Spirit helps us believe in the impossible. “One Incredible Moment,” taken from a book by Max Lucado, is our theme for the next few weeks as we look at what the manger means to me and the silent night of the heart. I hope you’ll make plans to be here every week.
SONG (verse 1 of Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus)
Tonight let’s allow thoughts on God’s love to be our focus. God’s love has no strings, no expectations, no hidden agendas, no secrets. His love for us is up-front and personal. God sees each child, each one of us, and we are instantly loved. Permanently loved.
We are created in God’s image. God made us to be like God. To laugh. To create. To love. God breathed life into us, starting our life story. The end of our story is yet to be written. But how much safer it would have been if God had just finished the story for us! Had scripted every option instead of adding alternative endings to choose from. It would have been so much simpler and safer! But that’s not love. Love is only love if chosen.
And it was love that gave the world Emmanuel, God with us, Jesus. You see, God entered our life story. The Bible says, “The Word became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood.” God became flesh and blood: a human. He, too, would be born. God, too, would have hands and feet. He, too, would have tears and trials.
And most importantly, God, too, would have a choice. Emmanuel, God with us, Jesus, would stand at the crossroads of life and death and make a choice. And God knows the weight of that decision. He could stop. Even God has a choice.
But how can a Creator not create? How can a Writer not write? And how can Love not love? So God chooses life, with hope that his children will do the same. God chooses love, because that is God’s nature.
But here’s what those of us sitting here today really want to know. We’ve got to ask it because we’ve been wondering. Dear God, how long will your love last? Will you really love us forever? Not just on Sunday when our shoes are polished and our hair is combed? We want to know!
How do you feel about us when we act like jerks? Or what about when we’re animated and upbeat and ready to tackle world hunger? We know how you feel about us then. We even like ourselves then. But how do you feel about us when we snarl at anything that moves, when our thoughts are down in the sewer, when our words are prickly and cut like a knife. How do you feel about us then God? Surely you don’t still love us then God!
Can anything separate us from the love Christ has for us? God answered that question before we even asked it, and so we’d see his answer, upfront and personal, God lit the sky with a star. And so we’d hear it, God filled the night with singers. And so we’d believe it, God did what humankind had never dreamed.
God became flesh and blood and dwelt among us. God moved into our ‘hood. And God reached out God’s hand, placed it on our shoulders and said, “You! You’re extraordinary! You are so special to me.”
SONG: (verse 1 of Joy to the World)
Make room in your hearts because God is moving in. And God’s moving in with you because God loves what he sees. Inundated with passion. Overcome by pride. The maker and creator of heaven and earth turns to us, one by one and says, “You’re my child. I love you very much. Someday you may turn from me and walk away, but I want you to know this. I’ve already provided a way back home.”
God did something unexpected and surprising. God removed his radiant robe and put on skin: pigmented, human skin like the persons God had created. The light of the world went into a dark womb. The one whom angels adore lay in the belly of a poor girl, was born on a cold night, and then slept on rough, scratchy hay. One incredible, hard to believe moment, don’t you think?
Mary didn’t know whether to give Jesus milk or give him praise, but she gave him both since he was, as near as she could figure, both a hungry infant as well as divine. Joseph didn’t know whether to call him his earthly Son or his heavenly Father. In the end he called him Jesus, since that’s what the angel had said and since he didn’t have the faintest idea what to name a God he could actually hold in his arms.
Just imagine Mary and Joseph looking at each other and both praying in their minds, “What in the world are you doing, God?” Or maybe even, “God, what are you doing in the world?”
God says to you, “Can anything make me stop loving you? Watch me speak your language, sleep on your ground, and feel your pain. Take a look at the maker of sight and sound as I sneeze, cough, and blow my nose, just like you.
You wonder if I understand how you feel? Look into the dancing eyes of the kid I was in Nazareth: that’s me walking to school! Ponder the toddler at Mary’s, my mother’s table: that’s me spilling my milk.”
“Do you still wonder how long my love will last?” God asks. “Maybe you will find your answer on a splintered cross on a craggy hill. You see that’s me, too, that you see up there. Your creator. Your God. Nail-stabbed and bleeding. That’s your death I’m dying. That’s your resurrection I’m living. Love is a choice, and I choose you. That’s how much I love you.”
How great is God’s love? How can the maker of the world be bothered about the bumps and the curves on the ride which is called your life? Just think about this: if God is able to place the stars, and the sky, and everything else in the universe exactly where it should go, don’t you think it’s remotely possible that God is able to guide your life?
Think about it: if God is powerful enough to set fire to the sun, could it be that he is powerful enough to light your way? If God cares enough about the planet Saturn to give it rings or about Venus to make it shine, do you think there’s an outside chance that God cares enough about you to meet your needs? Do you think?
Jesus says, “Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God. And you count far more to him than birds.”
“Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion—do you think it makes that much difference? Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them.”
“If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax,….” Matthew 6: 26-30
Why did God do it? Did God have to give the birds a song and the mountains a peak? Was God required to put stripes on the zebra and the hump on the camel? Would we have known the difference had he made the sunsets gray instead of orange?
Why do stars have twinkles and the waves snowy crests? Why cover the cardinal in red and wrap the beluga whale in white? Why drape creation in such splendor and magnificence? Why go to such trouble to give such gifts?
Well, why do YOU do it? You do the exact same thing. Admit it. Think about when you’re searching for just the right gift. Don’t deny it! You’re stalking the malls and walking the aisles and I’m not talking about the obligatory gifts, either. I’m not talking about buying the last-minute drugstore body spray on for your kid’s teacher. I’m not thinking about the Wal-Mart specials and discount store acquisitions.
No, I’m talking about that extra-special person and that extra-special gift. I’m talking about how you put away a few dollars a month so you can buy him some lizard-skin boots. I’m talking about staring at a thousand rings to find her the best diamond. I’m talking about staying up all night Christmas Eve putting together the new bike with the instructions, “some assembly required.”
Why do you do it? Admit it! You do it so the eyes will pop. You do it so the heart will either stop or start beating harder. You do it so the jaw will drop. You do it to hear those words of disbelief, “You did this for me?” That’s why you do it, and that’s why God did it. Next time a sunrise steals your breath away or a field of flowers leaves you amazed, stay that way. Say nothing and just listen as God softly speaks, “Do you like it? I did it just for you.”
God did it all for you and God’s waiting for you to see and realize that his gift is waiting for you. Such love is sometimes hard to believe because we’ve never experienced anything like it before. But just because we can’t imagine God giving us sunsets doesn’t mean that God didn’t do it. Every so often, out of God’s great wisdom, our heavenly parent gives us a piece of heaven here on earth just to show us how much he really cares. How much God really loves us.
SONG: (verse 1 of Hark! The Herald Angels Sing)
The racket and the activity began earlier than usual in the community. As night gave way to sunrise, people were already on the roads. Vendors were placing themselves on the corners of the most heavily traveled streets. Store owners were unlocking the doors to their shops. Children were awaken by the agitated barking of dogs and the moans of donkeys pulling carts.
The owner of the hotel had awakened earlier than most in the city. After all, the hotel was full, all the beds taken. Every available mat or blanket had been put to use. Soon all the customers would be rousing from their sleep and there would be a lot of work to do.
Try to imagine the conversation between the owner of the hotel and his family at the breakfast table that morning. Did they talk about the appearance of the young couple the night before? Did any of them ask about their safety? Did they comment on the pregnancy of the teenager on the donkey?
Maybe. Maybe somebody raised the issue. But at best it was raised and not talked about. After all, there was nothing that unique about them. They were maybe 1 of several families turned away that night. Besides, who had time to talk about them when there was so much excitement in the air? Augustus did the economy of Bethlehem a favor when he decreed that a census should be taken. Who could remember when so many business opportunities had arrived in town?
No, it was doubtful that anyone talked about the couple’s coming to town or considered the condition of the pregnant teen. They were too busy. The new day was upon them. The day’s bread had to be made. The morning’s chores had to be done. There was way too much to do to imagine that the impossible had taken place in the night. That God had entered the world as a baby.
SONG: (verse 1 of Once in Royal David’s City)
Max Lucado tells a story of God’s love by relating it to his relationship with his kids. He writes, “My daughters are too old for this now, but when they were young—crib-size and diaper-laden—I would come home, shout their names, and watch them run to me with extended arms and squealing voices. For the next few moments we would speak the language of love. We’d roll on the floor, gobble bellies, and tickle tummies and laugh and play.”
Max said, “We delighted in each other’s presence. They made no requests to me, with the exception of ‘Let’s play, Daddy.’ And I made no demands of them, except, ‘Don’t hit Daddy with the hammer.’ My kids let me love them. But suppose my daughters had approached me as we often approach God. ‘Hey, Dad, glad you’re home. Here is what I want. More toys. More candy. And can we go to Disneyland this summer?’”
“’Whoa,’ I would have wanted to say. ‘I’m not a waiter, and this isn’t a restaurant. I’m your father, and this is our house. Why don’t you just climb up on Daddy’s lap and let me tell you how much I love you?’”
Ever thought God might want to do that same with you? Oh, God wouldn’t say that to me you might say. Oh really? Then to whom was he speaking when God said, “I’ve never quit loving you and never will. Expect love, love, and more love!” Jeremiah 31: 3 Was the Bible just teasing when it says, “Absolutely nothing can get between us and God’s love because of the way that Jesus our Master has embraced us.” Romans 8: 39
Or what about this hidden deep in the Old Testament book of Zephaniah: “Your God is present among you, a strong Warrior there to save you. Happy to have you back, he’ll calm you with his love and delight you with his songs.” Zephaniah 3: 17 Don’t ever tell me our God is only loving in the New Testament and not the Old. It’s right there. I’ve just given you 2 examples from the Old Hebrew Bible.
And just look at the verbs! Who is active and who is passive? Who’s doing the singing and who is calmly resting? Who is rejoicing over his loved one, and who is being celebrated? We usually imagine that we’re the singers and that is often the case. But it sounds as if there are times when God wants us to just kick back, be still, and let God sing over us. You are precious to God. So precious that he became like you so that you would come to him.
Some of us struggle to think of that, to hear these words, me included. If you’re like me, you don’t feel worthy of such love and attention. But God reminds us that neither was Judas who betrayed him, but Jesus still washed his feet. Neither was Peter who denied even knowing him, but Jesus still fixed him breakfast later. Neither were the followers of Jesus on the way to the town of Emmaus, but Jesus took the time to sit at their table and eat with them, and their eyes were opened. It was the dawn of a new day in their lives.
Who are we to say who’s worthy and who’s not? That’s not up to us. Our job is simply to be still long enough to let God cover us and enfold us. To let God love us. And oh, how he loves us.
SONG (How He Loves Us http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWgeUrD4MHI)
Let’s pray: Our hearts beat faster and our adrenaline flows more heavily at this time of the year, oh God. We respond to the lights and decorations, to the glad sounds of music, to the prospects of gifts, and brightly decked out houses, and parties and friends and relatives coming to visit. But help us not to forget, gracious God, that the origin of all joy is in your love and self-giving, which were made known most completely in the child born at Bethlehem. Teach us to be still and to touch the joy. Let it flow through us like some eternal medicine, healing our hurts and wounds and illnesses. Let it ring through our minds like heavenly bells, tolling happiness and friendship and a peace we have never really known.
And when we have felt it, let it move out from us to everyone we meet and know. Let the true spirit of Christmas begin in us and gradually take over the world, converting hate to love, greed to generosity, and unawareness to illumination. Let the song of the angels be our song as we are drawn together in the name of him who was born and died and rose from the dead, to save the world from its sin. It’s in Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.